Now i know that sounds beta asf. I know that your meant to be confident enough in yourself and secure enough that you dont need her validation. But come on, of course i want her to validate me, compilment me etc. Especially after sex . Any normal person would want that. Its part of the human desire for connection and intimacy.

The thing is, it seems like these girls are too stubborn to do so and dont want to “boost your ego”.

Obviously being needy about this is the wrong way to go. Dont try force her to validate you by asking or saying something stupid.

However i do want her to validate me. I guess i want confirmation that she is attracted and has some kind of feelings for me

She married him for a husband. Had she wanted a hot lover he need not have applied. He is her type as a husband, he is not her type as a Chad.

The worst thing is that most men in his position -no previous relationships- will just end up going back to her when their balls turn blue. Unless they manage to fall out badly enough from this, him serving a miserable life sentence is the likely result, though he did no wrong. She holds the only pussy he has ever been in. That is terrible power.

A slightly better option will be if they do fall out badly enough to split and he gets to watch her go and slut out for a string of hot guys during her gay divorcee phase.

Either way this guy will have more pain to come.

Men and women both need to be educated that a man's "Third leg" is the biggest contribution to his desire to remain in a relationship. It just is. Both parties need to see this as the norm ahead of coupling up. Your dick's need lets you tolerate a whole lot of shit you would never take otherwise. But men need to have limits and standards too or they get terribly used. Women need to know that they are buying into a man needing them for sex for life if they want a husband. Sure the law will let you refuse him but then you can't keep his good will. The law can't change how you feel.