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@Bozza Where do you usually source out:
29m ago Ask TRP Forum
Being Productive and When to Adapt ?
Self-discipline and consistency are important because most worthwhile strategies take time before results become visible. The problem is figuring out when patience is the answer versus when the approach itself is inefficient. In areas like diet, workouts, studying, or business, results are often delayed, so how do people judge when to stay disciplined and when to adapt?
Perhaps a lot of this is just intuitive and there is no hard rule such as changing strategy every month or so.
I'm curious what you guys have to say about it. I have experienced some strategies myself.
I need to chime in.
I don't have large data set but. My current validates me also with words, sure its cool but I always was trying to disattach from words. And I dont know what was first: egg or chicken.
My exLLTR was not spilling many validation words and then loads time apart (hopefuly I remember that well) yet she on her own volition did things.
Dont look only for words, IMO: leaning into you, enthusiastic sex, taking opinion on things you might find offensive, a and many more superior markers. If you read about pickup IOI, well that is validation, if she doesn't do that for anyone else.
At the seme time it keeps her in a game. She wouldn't fuck you sober without some interest, she will branch\cuck if she doesn't SHOW validation.
This is a great question actually and, no I don't think it's beta or retarded. It's human. Brother of course you want validation. You're girl should be cheering you on and talking you up!
Now I take this personally because I just broke up with my last girlfriend of several years for this very same issue. If she can't meet you in in enthusiasm and build you up, unfortunately that's a mismatch my brother.
Now I'm going to deliver the brutal truth: As far as "getting" her to validate you, it's not happening. If she doesn't have that desire then the relationship isn't functioning.
Now please take this with a grain of salt. Before you make this about her, take a look at your actions, are you putting fourth the effort to have fun with her? Is your life stable?
There's usually two sides to a story. This sounds like an impasse, but it's worth reflecting on. You deserve more than someone that doesn't fulfill that need.
Stay strong!
Read MoreIt's simple for me. Women that want you will validate you naturally. At least in my experience, that's how it's been. If a woman is not validating you at all, then move on to the next. Most women I've been with have naturally validated me, and I haven't had to ask and nor would I. It should just come naturally as a result of who you are and what you do. Trust me, if a girl is not validating you or stroking your ego, especially after laying her, she's most likely not that into you - so no further action required. Chasing validation is anti-game and anti-frame.
If whoever this girl is that you're craving validation from isn't naturally doing that, you probably need to next her. Believe me, they NATURALLY validate you as a result of wanting you. You shouldn't have to question this.
The question doesn't make sense. What are you trying to ask?
Congratulations for climbing out of the "dark period" shithole that you enjoyed very much but which is also in your current favor to downplay.
Now, you are a pure being of light who has no need for bodily fluids or filthy caresses of the flesh. Perhaps you can make do with a life of quiet meditation and your own morally-advanced thoughts.
A new 27yo hire at my job came back from the big city™ after being done fucking around with her college degree. Although we never interacted much (different departments) one day one of my boomer coworkers told me she was into me - I never paid attention so I wouldn't know. Next thing I know she's regularly in my face (23yo) and the boomers are trying to set us up for whatever reason, I guess the tradition there is that employees marry up eachother and we are all pretending to be a big family or whatever. Since I don't shit where I eat I stay friendly but politely give her signs to give it up. Boomer coworkers at this point are shaming me, labelling me as some kind of shy virgin - whatever, doesn't bother me, I'm not putting my d inside her.
Since gossip is currency the word goes around and it turns out she's having some sort of a fling with her 54yo coworker and I shit you not she's letting him hit on her publicly and while I don't blindly believe it - rumor has it she got/was almost groped, with witnesses of course. And from what I've seen personally there are more older dudes after her. What makes me chuckle is how she wasted her youth chasing useless degree, landing in a shitty ass job position around old perverts and instead of saving her last fertile youthful years she's having flings with random old dudes instead of looking for some beta Billy to save her from oblivion.
Then again I don't see her hitting it big. Mid face, unsexy body, random tattoos all over the place that remind me of my notebooks in high school, no real career. Honestly I feel pity for her, dunno if I should but I do.
Read More@Baron I agree with Bozza, horse is good. Whale is good. Some say it leaves a smell on you if you eat a lot but then again I never noticed as we were all eating a lot of it. Its a bit like beef with a hint of the sea. Seal is more fishy. All deer are much the same -just very lean and stronger tasting but a lot depends on if the meat is hung. I never hang venison. Some tribes won't eat elephant because of the smell. Some regard zebra as smelling bad but I never minded. Just about the only mammal I won't eat is a dog. Its another altruistic small group hunter that we have spent a lot of time with over the millennia.
Beaver sparks my interest. I wonder if its nice and fatty? I have a nice beaver hunting hat for the coldest days still hunting. A home made one might be nice too. I wonder...
