Me and the boys went to the nearby city to a club. I'll be honest, I'm not the most attractive nor the ugliest, but I have the most balls and a will to try approaching even though some of my boys laugh when I fail, but fuck 'em.
I had 3 sets of girls, I failed every one of them (didn't have a good convo, didn:t get a number). At least, I talked to 6 girls and that's a big achievement for me. Also, I used the same opener for every set.
1st set of girls I went to, talked, introduced myself, but I lost interest and they also did since they're way older than me.
2nd set of girls - 1 was attractive, but didn't say a word. The uglier started talking to me and was pretty bitchy so I left, she showed no interest. It may be her insecurity that blocked me from talking to them, since she was 3 points below from the girl next to her.
3rd set of girls - I went with a buddy and I did all the talking. They were the most attractive set, as I started the approach, the prettier one said: "No, just no". She didn't even give me a chance to talk at all, while the other chick didn't even look at me, not even once. Tbh, when I approached them, they were slouched, looking down, maybe they were annoyed, angry, depressed or just drunk.
The problem is, before these approaches, last approach was long ago and IG I fell off the practice. The opener was cheesy: Hey "random female name" I know you. Basically I pick a name then I talk to her like I know her, "are you her", "wdyd here".
I thought it would be a good test, a chick which really liked me would just smile and answer "yes that's me". But, as I said, I don't think the opener matters that much, all that matters if the chick likes me right away.
Also I didn't have as much confidence as I do now, and that plays a part. Maybe I was unlucky, I think if I just found maybe more of them I'd atleast get a number from one of them.
Serious question, are there no females were you live that you could talk to? None at all? It's just social media sites and night clubs miles from your hometown where you can find females?
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Read MoreBroke up with red flag girl, she had a crying sesh following morning, how do I cope?
Follow up on the red flags girl, "where do we stand post".
So, I had the talk again with the red flag girl, basically had the same exact talk as 4 weeks ago, and she hadn't said a blip about commitment or those same topics until this week. Then during this talk she asks why I hadn't mentioned it... well because you hadn't mentioned it - I already gave my ultimatum prior.
If you want the job, you're going to put your best foot forward in the interview, you're going to act like you're already hired, and display your best traits. Same thing in a relationship, if you want commitment, you'd act like you already are in one and won't continue red flag behaviors (going to bar without telling me, going to bar without me, not being combative, cooking or offering me things more often, not having hissy fits, being upset that i don't reply several hours when I am infact busy with 2 jobs, interrogating me) et cetera.
She hasn't done that, and during this convo she said she wouldn't change her ways, but she still wants me and my commitment, tough luck. She said she hadn't been with other guys since she met me and she only had one LTR for 3 yrs, but based on actions how could I believe that? I follow actions, not words. We had a couple beers, and fucked one last time, I think that was a mistake. And because she didn't give me a definite answer of whether we were going to continue seeing each other or not the night before, I had to make the executive decision this morning and say no we aren't, because the bad will outweighs the good.
I don't want the drama, I don't want no closure, I feel like I may have alleviated the closure aspect, but not the drama. She was crying up a river, upset, about things she can change, am I wrong? I'm not upset she was born 5'6", I'm upset she continues to act like she's single and expects commitment. And I'm not even upset, I'm just indifferent to female degeneracy.
So did I behave the incorrect way? Could I have done something differently? Should I have broken it up earlier or it's just a case of "it is what it is"?
My attempt to answer: I do think I should have ended the conversation that night rather than staying over. I could have broken it off earlier months ago, but I was still spinning the plate, but that's scarcity speaking; I was just putting up with red flag behavior consciously, even though it was mostly casual. I was battling nice guy tendencies and RP awareness, trying to give her the benefit of the doubt knowing damn well a fish does not need a bicycle and a hoe doesn't deserve a relationship.
@Vermillion-Rx Looks like a Phonics Chad or English Major response to every username variant of Playboy was already in use.
@Typo-MAGAshiv I don't want to inflate your ego Typo, but yes that thread caused me to look back into it.
You don't get this far into the red pill without challenging your own assumptions regularly. I seek out invalidation like a drug. It's a rush.
What are your thoughts on the late Pope?
For a little over a decade, Jorge Mario Bergoglio served as a bad Pope, but during that time he was the Pope nonetheless. I couldn't say I thought much of Pope Francis at all beyond that though.
Given his age at the time he was elected, no one was hiding their thoughts that he wouldn't have long left for this world. Thing is, the agents had already made it very clear rather early on that Easter 2025 would be his last and he'd "succumb" to Pneumonia. I wasn't surprised when it happened, so make of that what you will.
What’s up brothers, this is a shorter post of my previous one:
How do you guys cope with knowing the fact you lost a good girl (whatever that means to you)? We had amazing chemistry and I even convinced her to accept a one sided open relationship. I made sure to tell her this before the relationship, actually on the first few dates. And we had a threesome.
We were together for 3 years and the relationship was never fully agreement free. Due to me and my inability to communicate effectively and solve our problems - which I’m working on now.
Long story short, she finally left, because she couldn’t trust me and claimed we have different views on marriage. I essentially tried to get her back for a month straight in which I said I’d be monogamous (I meant it cause I was tired of sleeping around), and I’m willing to work on myself for the betterment of the relationship. We argued about finance structure in marriage and decision making. I wanted to be the leader and she wanted us to be an equal partnership (not wrong in terms of marriage). Remind you we been together for 3 years and this never was an issue.
So yeah, she finally left and now is talking to new men and finally blocked me. I understand most trp principles and have a few plates; so maybe it’s oneitis…My issue was that before she left, I didn’t really care to change anything as my ego was through the roof. She was an 8.5 in my eyes. Did almost everything right. Not a feminists or sjw.
The guilt that I let this one slip away is eating me up. Knowing I can do nothing about it. She turned cold. She’s 28 and on the prowl and we were talking about marriage and getting engaged this year. And that still wasn’t enough.
I’ve been hoping she reaches back out but I doubt it. If she loved me like she said she did, why not give a second chance? I never lied and we were so close. Unless it was all a facade.
During that month of trying to win her back, she did pop back up at my house but I was hesitant and kind of blew her off. This is what’s eating me up the most. I should have just set my ego aside and went all in, then.
Anyone else have similar experience? How long before you moved on? How did you move on? how long did the regret linger?
I have a lot going for myself but now I feel lost and so de-motivated. I’m still working hard but the drive is less now.
My advice to myself: I didn’t realize what I had until it was gone. I got too comfortable and had a big ego because she was a unicorn in my eyes, especially accepting the OLTR setup AND being a traditional woman. I put her on a pedestal. Nothing I can do besides move on.
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As I said before, If a girl's looking for guys she might form exclusive relationships with and that's not at all what you're offering, you're not loosing anything by encouraging her to continue seeking out other guys looking for the same thing as her. It frees you to resume wrapping up your Johnson to dive between the next willing girls legs as you continue riding the dragon without any burdens or regrets. Why concern yourself with exclusive relationships when that's of no interest to you? Keep going until you reach the point where you sincerely desire something more fulfilling than just casual fornication on your own initiative.
You're not feeling guilty about her departure, but disappointed that she didn't leave on terms you'd set. She rejected you after three years and your ego's mildly bruised from it. If you had one-itis or otherwise sincerely valued what you had with her, you would've spent those three years gradually weening yourself off the plates and reached out to us sooner to learn how to take steps to lay a foundation with this girl from which a strong relationship might grow. Now that it's over, you should take the time to process and accept this failure as you move on. Put her on block from your social media and tele-comm contact points, bang the other plates in your inventory, and consider studying the book so you're prepared to handle chicks you think are worth keeping around.
Read MoreFrom what I understand, it seems that they prefer a relationship dynamic where one person holds most of the power. They seem to want to play a secondary role and aren't necessarily looking for equality. In fact, if they do find themselves in an equal relationship, they will seek someone else. Is that the case? Because that goes against my values. If that’s what they are looking for, it feels similar to someone engaging in self-harm behavior, and I’m not willing to be part of that. I’m not here to be ridiculed, I will not change my values. Unless I’m wrong I will take whatever dignity I have left and head over to MGTOW and try to cope without needing them in my life. Before you call me gay, I wish I was I would be happy.
Even though our society increasingly expresses a retarded amalgamation of Marxism and gyno-centrism, males will never be exempted or absolved from being held responsible and accountable for the failures and incompetence of the members of their household. As such, a man has no choice, but to lead the relationship, though he's free to develop a leadership style that suits him and his mate. Some styles are beneficial to laying a strong foundation from which a healthy household may grow, but most are not.
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
That said, in order for a male to lay a solid foundation from which a strong relationship with any female can be had, the man must first earn her confidence. Frustrating as that may seem, this is the unavoidable natural progression of all relationships. Without earning her confidence, you'll never have her trust. Without her trust, you'll never have her respect. Without her respect, you'll never have her love. Her desire for you is a fleeting thing that will only last for so long.
If a female ever declares that she will not follow a man, or you discern that she's so profoundly psychologically damaged that you could never earn her confidence then it's in both parties best interests that the man quietly depart to find companionship with a female who will grant him reasonable opportunity to earn her confidence. No pu$$y is worth dehumanizing oneself, fighting for, or dying over.
Read More@Mate1212 I can answer this from a Stepdad perspective. If she chooses a decent guy, you don't think about the sex part, at least if you have your head screwed on correctly. If she were to grow into a THOT, and/or hook up with an obvious dirtbag, it feels like a wasted investment of time and better example offered, but still one does not dwell on the sex parts inherent in her having grown up.
Commodity price trends over the last few centuries say you're wrong.
Paul Ehrlich's predictions in The Population Bomb and elsewhere often get pointed to in this discussion. He wasn't wrong about resource depletion, but his prediction timelines were off because of ongoing advances in resource extraction. Sure, humankind has kept up with rising demand far beyond the limits seen by Ehrlich in his time, but at the cost of massively increasing entropy. For example, massive strip mining and leaching operations to capture minerals, and the Faustian bargain of fracking to keep wells producing that were declining with traditional methods but at a higher price per BTU and much more dire deferred environmental cost.
China is facing a catastrophic future due to its idiotic one child policy.
Probably the worst example. China has managed to industrialize and raise the individual standard of living far faster and better than almost EVERY nation in modern history, in large measure BECAUSE of the one child policy.
does not portend well for the future of these countries
Exactly WHAT is troubling about stabilizing population numbers at some fraction of where they are today, in the name of prosperity for all into the distant future? Many of the arguments I've heard against it are economic and boil down to top quintile no longer able to exploit the growing masses for profit and wealth concentration upward. The quiet part seldom said out loud is fear that "their" race will get "taken over" by other races. Proponents of either of these arguments never seem to bring a viable answer to the question of HOW to sustain an ever-growing population on a limited planet to the table.
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