Saw a girl who was into me four years ago that I met through a close friend. She recently just broke up with her ex.
I was running late and didn't put my contacts in and she had a completely different hairstyle literally didn't recognize her and reintroduced myself like a dumbass and it took me a sec to register that I knew her.
We briefly "talked" 4 yrs ago and last message I have is a dm of us scheduling drinks and her giving me her number but I can't remember what happened after that and why it didnt work out.
She seemed super horny and like she was looking for dick. I only talked to her briefly during the night but she never seemed super interested, but I kept catching her looking over and she was standing around me the whole night, especially when I was talking to other girls and when we were dancing.
Her closest girl friend at the party was really excited and thinks I should go for it, I kinda don't want to embarrass myself in front of my friends, she's close friends with him. How do I reengage?
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
Read MoreHow does Onlyfans affect the Sexual Marketplace?
I'm kind of curious about people's thoughts on only fans, I was rereading the misandry bubble and it got me thinking. Porn overall isn't necessarily bad for us since most men will flock to it as easy comfort, leaving more women available. But only fans is different in that now even fairly lazy women can more than support themselves and their lavish lifestyles based on onlyfans income.
Of course, this is assuming they manage their money well. But for the ones who are making 6figs plus now they don't need as much resources from men, and expect an even higher standard, especially with increased validation. On the other hand I'm sure a lot of these women aren't thinking about the future when they get old and their subs slow and now no man will marry them.
Will it be a net negative or positive to Men, and when I say Men I mean Red Pilled ones? I've already seen the negative effects on the majority.
My only thought is that Onlyfans, and similar websites, exist simply as money laundering fronts for intelligence agencies and international organized crime while masquerading as a crowdfunded amateur porn site. The majority of people trying to make money through it are morons too stupid to understand that they'll never get rich that way let alone make enough for more than bus fare. The people who're receiving big time cash are actors working for intelligence agencies and organized crime groups using the site as a means through which they can discretely launder and transmit money around the world. At this point, anyone who believes otherwise shouldn't be mocked and derided, but pitied.
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