At what point should you quit drinking entirely, and should it be forever?
Last night was my breaking point. I actually paced myself yet somehow still got too drunk. I don’t think I was nearly as drunk as a couple nights ago yet I broke down and cried to my mom and told her about personal problems and things I’ve never disclosed to her.
I also drunk texted my ex again.
At this point I don’t know what to do. Quitting alcohol wouldn’t be difficult, but do I quit to the point where I can’t have one drink at a family bbq?
I’m also going to go to therapy again. After therapy could I drink again?
I’m not 100% certain I’ll quit alcohol. The problem is that negative emotions get WAY worse for me with alcohol. I don’t get so drunk that I’m endangered, but mentally I’m fucked. The fact that I literally cried to my mom for 30 minutes last night makes me feel so embarrassed and like I have no control.
If anyone can give advice on whether I should fully quit alcohol + advice on how to feel after my behavior last night, I’d really appreciate it.
I've no experience with your drinking to say if it's serious or not. That's for you to figure out. However, I'd like to take this opportunity to make you aware that @Ill_Will7's a recovering alcoholic who regularly attends alcoholics anonymous meetings. While I'm not suggesting he be a sponsor of any sort, I mention him because I'm sure he could point out some basic information that the group provides to help those seeking to overcome the addiction, or simply regain greater self control can help you to some degree on this matter. Regardless of what choice you make, I wish you the best of luck in this endeavor.
Read MoreWell I largely abandoned any concern with “game” about a year ago after I was having success with women who liked me rather than worrying about saying the right stuff. I am naturally funny so I don’t need a smooth line, and if they don’t give me any opportunity to show how funny I am then they must not be attracted enough right off the bat for me to want them around anyway.
Reads like you're describing pick-up, more-so than game, but it's good you're observant that females may see you as easy on the eyes. However, guys who depend on humor alone tend to be wimps. The problem with being a wimp is that most females barely know what to do with the pu$$y they were born with and aren't particularly interested in having a second one in their life.
@Typo-MAGAshiv okay well see, that’s part of my problem! Back in the day I used to send screenshots of texts to people who were helping me with “game” and they’d scrutinize it. I swear to God the guy who I posted about in my original post would ALWAYS say something about my game was off if a bitch didn’t fuck me. When in reality either it was that she wasn’t interested enough or that I lived an hour away or that she had a boyfriend (hypothetically) and felt guilty, or any other 1,000 fucking reasons. So then I guess I do have game
@carnold03 Well I largely abandoned any concern with “game” about a year ago after I was having success with women who liked me rather than worrying about saying the right stuff. I am naturally funny so I don’t need a smooth line, and if they don’t give me any opportunity to show how funny I am then they must not be attracted enough right off the bat for me to want them around anyway.
Yeah you make a good point. Even the flaired users have different experiences. For example, if a flaired user lives in a big city yet the reader lives in the middle of nowhere it’s gonna take a different type of game.
Game works mainly on stupid people with damaged minds and broken spirits. Towns, cities, and suburbs, have more people than the rural countryside. People living in the country need to maintain good relations with their relatives and neighbors to survive, so they will be actively concerned regarding their reputation. Females from towns and cities, literally give few fu&%$ about reputation, because most guys are pathetically thirsty for pu$$y, and the corporate-government-complex doesn't want you to form a strong family, and raise healthy children.
@carnold03 Yeah you make a good point. Even the flaired users have different experiences. For example, if a flaired user lives in a big city yet the reader lives in the middle of nowhere it’s gonna take a different type of game.
Take non-flaired users’ advice with a grain of salt….
…or advice of any “redpill” retard who just spouts off random shit.
I’ve been traumatized by some of the shit I’ve read in TRP spaces.
I was also traumatized by some shit that the retard who introduced me to TRP said to me, and it took years to even begin to undo this stuff.
Also, the guy who introduced me to TRP was jaded because his ex girlfriend was blowing some dude off-screen while they were FaceTiming while they were together.
Then, AFTER he shoved black pill disguised as red pill down my throat, he got into an LDR with a tatted up single mother in her 30’s (he was like 25), and he said he wanted to “figure out if the red pill is true”. Then she played him of course, because it’s a fucking tatted single mother in her 30s and it was an LDR, and he concluded that the red pill was true. Again, all this was AFTER he black pilled me with his bullshit. I didn’t find out about this LDR until like a year ago, but back in 2020 we were all in a discord group so I knew the hoe through discord and knew she was trash. I have the most complete understanding of how retarded some of these fake red pillers (actually just black pillers, until it suits them to be blue pilled again) can be.
These are the types of people you’re listening to when you take advice from non-flaired retards. This is the same type of guy who says that he would never do xyz, and then he does it.
There is a difference between retards who regurgitate information that is recreational outrage, without having been in the position to actually follow their own advice (and they would fold if they were in those positions), and people who have actually done things and learned lessons and give advice based on their lessons.
So yes, these are my thoughts. I’m no longer listening to non-flaired users unless their advice has no trace of black pill.
The best advice any individual can get is the encouragement to exercise the freedom they possess to choose to question, scrutinize, test, or outright ignore any, if not, all advice they ever receive from others, regardless of who's offering. The flares won't tell you if someone is widowed, divorced, married, single, a parent, sterile, a government employee, an atheist, or anything else that might provide you with context when considering the other party's perspective from which they give their advice. For more aware individuals, this makes it easy to dismiss the assumption that anyone they interact with online are being either honest or truthful.
Unfortunately, we're not entitled to honesty or the truth. You'll have to put in the work to find it and as it's increasingly becoming the case for a lot of people, you will eventually find yourself in situations where you're forced to defend yourself against the treachery of liars. Some of whom will be friends, relatives, neighbors, countrymen, or foreigners installed into positions of authority over you.
Like most every guy who wanders into manosphere, MGTOW, red pill websites or forums, you're stumbling about with little to no guidance. Finding yourself in yet another arena where you have to fend for yourself. The red pill's not just about females or sex, and never exclusively was. Those who believe otherwise are stupid. Those who make, or echo, such erroneous claims are dis-genuine liars, who seek to control, and manipulate what could bring you to any understanding of the truth. Be wary of such people. They conspire to ensure that you continue to fail and suffer in life. Worse yet, these treacherous creatures relish knowing your misery will endure.
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