thank you I appreciate your help in my time of darkness
Platitudes are unnecessary. If the information is indeed useful, then use it to your benefit. She had her chance with you, there's no shame moving on without her.
First serious relationship. What should I do?
I’ve been with girl for 2.5 years. She is a family member of my best friend and we met in PR. We started seeing each other every weekend. I live in NorCal and she lives in SoCal. We both made the efforts to met each other. She fit and attractive but she has had a bunch of bad relationships and daddy issues. Long story short after a year and a half I met her family and got a marriage license. NOT MARRIED TO HER. And she agreed to move in with me in NorCal. She didn’t have much going on with her life but just apply to medical school. I’ve helped her out financially but after 2.5 years she wants out after she got accepted into Med school. She told me I’m not her type because I’m unfit, sloppy, and poor social skills. She will be staying at my pad till she starts school which is in 6 months. What should I do and should I even consider to try to get back with her
Reads like you really need to talk to your best friend and give him a heads up that his sister's going to need to crash someplace else when she starts the coming semester. Beyond that, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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